Thursday, September 30, 2010
hypocrite
"I remember being all alone when I received the news one of my best friends, Trey, was killed in a car accident. I remember how I was relieved to receive the news alone in my apartment, that way I could allow myself just one good cry without the feeling of someone watching me get it all out. And I compare that feeling to the one I had when my sister called to tell me I would be an uncle. I was also alone then, and I felt so, just so lost. Of course I was through the roof with excitement, but have you ever been the only witness to something unbelievable? It’s like the feeling you get when you make a basket from 3/4 of the court with your eyes closed and no one is there to bear witness. The first thing you’re thinking is, Damn that was awesome and you’re running around with your arms held high. Then the “aw shucks” moment comes when you realize you’re only jumping into the arms of the air, and no one was around to witness your incredible shot.
Sharing bad news is intimate, but so is sharing good news. I love that you held me down whenever times were hard, but I definitely missed you when the times were good." -J.C.
an excerpt from an article about him talking about his past gf's and how its two different ball games when you share good/bad news with yourself and with them. Its all too true. I think in the end, its not you we miss so much, its your company.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Funfact #3
MASSSSSIVE!
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Snack Time!
"Forty-five percent of Roman Catholics who participated in the study didn't know that, according to church teaching, the bread and wine used in Holy Communion is not just a symbol, but becomes the body and blood of Christ."
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_rel_religious_literacy_poll
I mean what were they thinking? That the communion was a little treat the church offers for attending their church? God bless the 45% of souls that are clueless. Talk about hard times,...people going to church for some free breakfast. SMH.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Funfact#2
Converse is owned by Nike..since 2003.
wha wha?!, where have I been all this time when nike bought out converse..oh that's right, focusing on graduating middle school with good grades in hopes to get into westmoor. HAHA
The 4 Amigos.
So cheers to these friends who have made it in our lives, embedded memories, probably have seen us at our happiest and at our lowest points, and have helped molded us to who we are today. All because our friends define who we are, secretly.
1. Rebel- A rebellious friend is always fun to have. They’re the ones who get you on your feet, not so much in a good way, but pretty much make you change your middle name to dangerous. The ones who make your parents and your parents friends shake their heads because they got a visible tattoo, pierced their own body part/s, disrespected their parents before, snuck out the house, ran away from home, smoke their lungs out and cut class to bop the malls..i mean “shopping”, and then got you to eventually be a rebel without a cause with them. And no matter how many times your parents, teachers, or friends despise and tell you they're bad news bears, you can’t drop them because they take you from “eh” to the straight “b.a.d.a.s.s.” lifestyle. Misery loves more company.
2. Positive- A positive friend is a must have. Take it or leave it, but you must have one of these to help get you through everything. Because when the going gets tough, they’re always there to push you with full on positivity. Almost like the No child left behind Act. They’ll never leave you hanging or behind but help make your impossible’s possible. They’re like your personal cheerleaders just without the eye-sore outfits. They’re the friends who always have a lending ear no matter where they are or what they’re doing. The one’s who will go above and beyond, drop hanging out with their boyfriend or girlfriend, friends, and sometimes family just so they could be there for you. That positive friend who will help pick you up from rock bottom even with the smallest and most simplest gestures. The friends who even when they hurt us, we suffer a bit but make excuses for their wrongs and ignore it because we know we have a good friendship. More times than not, there’s always more healing than suffering between our friendship. And that’s the friend who will take that stray bullet for us, survive the wound, and are so humble about it instead of shoving it in our faces 24/7 reminding and annoying us that they just saved our life making us feel like we owe every minute of our lives to them (although we really do).
3. Negative- A negative friend, we can’t hide from them because they seem to always catch us off guard. We’re all negative in one way or the other, but we ALL know we have that one friend that’s ALWAYS negative but somehow we’ve made it a point for them to stay in our lives with their negativity and sometimes, it’s what makes us stronger. Their crude and poisonous comments make us think twice about ourselves. Sometimes, we wonder how they even made it in our lives the way they drive us up the wall. But instead of tossing them out of our lives when we get tired of their b.s., we find ourselves running back to them when we’re mad and angry to vent and spill out all our anger and they somehow end up making our day turn from feeling MAD to FUNNY to feeling all BETTER. Because gossiping, talking s***, and venting with someone who agreed and egged on every hateful word you said never felt that good with a positive friend.
4. P.I.C.- partner.in.crime.: Someone who is willing to do anything and everything with you. But don’t mistake that for the same category as Rebel, because it’s a whole nother boat over there. This is the friend who may not really be in the mood to do the things you want to do at that time, but will suck it up, pick their butts up, and be right by your side doing the outrageous, then love you even more after for letting them have that much fun when they least expected it. Same goes for you. They’re the ones who love the thrill ride just as much and no matter how broke they are they will find a way to get that money, dirty or clean, just to experience the joy ride with you. Obnoxious, Foolish, and Ridiculous are characteristics that somehow make this friend ok to have while riding the coaster, but any other time?...Don’t even think about it. Anytime, anywhere, anyplace, they’re on your speed dial #2 (#1 taken by voicemail) so when significant others don’t exist to accompany you, you holla & they retreat, no excuses.
Sunday, September 26, 2010
humptydumps stats.
....just exactly how i'm feeling over the recent past years or maybe i'm just growing right before my very own eyes and I didn't even realize it.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Safari adventures.
yellowxranger
"you should really forget about those who don't care about you and move on stop trying to keep in touch w/ those people because in the end it doesn't matter how many friends you have if you are just living a lie. " -caitlinchin.
"I love the way you lie..." -rih rih.
B.O.S.S.
Friday, September 24, 2010
funfact#1
...Old Navy in Colma, California was the first Old Navy ever opened!
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
I wish you didn't have to leave..
"Dear summer, i know you gon' miss me for we been together like nike airs and crisp tees." -Hova
yo' baby name doe.
Top 5 "unique" names found in this contest in my opinion (not easy):
5. I'yana K
4. K'moni Lovely.
3. Be'Arre Ringo
2. Da'Joney
1. De'aje B.
Notice the tr'end?
Oh yea, Don't forget to vote for them while your at it. HAHA.
http://kmel.clearcontests.com/front/Image_Contest.asp?s=9197C997C4B5828397AFAFACAF68A29BC8A9A577806EA79B958579D1BDB696C8929566699287957A7EBFB86D5F81777DCDA3B497979499A1BFA5738EB88EA2A069737D82B4AE7C7879
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
bruno, bruno...
and just when every girl had the idea in mind "If only there was a Bruno Mars in every guy"....he goes and does something stupid. Got caught with the possesion of cocaine yesterday and below is his lovely infamous and hardcore mugshot. Bravo Bruno, BRAVO. We love you, JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Lessons Growing Up.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Meeting Rich Cho, the portland blazers new GM.
excerpt from article: "I understand that you and your parents emigrated from Burma, now called Myanmar, when you were very young. How has that experience shaped your career path or work ethic?
We came from Burma in 1968 when I was three years old. The first time I went back was six years ago, and it really made me feel even more grateful to have the opportunity to be educated and grow up in the States. Growing up, we didn’t have a lot of resources, and we struggled quite a bit. We were on food stamps for a long time, welfare. My dad worked the graveyard shift at 7-Eleven and my mom worked in a library and took an hour-long bus ride into work every day. Coming from a humble background made me not only hungry to succeed, but I also wanted to make my parents proud.
Check the link for more deets on the interview they did on Rich.
http://www.hyphenmagazine.com/blog/archive/2010/09/meet-rich-cho-portlands-newest-general-manager
LOVEandBASKETBALL.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
hallelujers, holla back.
We've(girls youthgroup) have been doin some biblical devo's (devotions) since we've gotten back from camp from which seemed like decades ago with the events going on in my life. And this week's devo was pretty doggone interesting.
excerpt from the article: "Faith seemed too judgmental, and if I heard one more preacher scream at me about the fire in hell, my eyes might have rolled out of my head. To make matters worse, some of the deepest wounds I had ever experienced came from within the walls of the church. So I thought maybe faith isn't for me."
It applies very well to me during countless struggles in my life. I always questioned "Why do I need to be listening to all these negative things about "faith". Having faith in this God that I love and adore is supposed to help me through the tough times, make me feel good, and not have me blisten in "hell" because i'm not doing this and that right? And at different points in time, I realized, thought about, and overanalyzed situations of what could hurt me the most and what gave me the deepest cuts in my heart, and that was the people whom I've grown up, kept around me till this day, and stand by me as I walk with God. Theres a reason for everything and that's why theyre still in my life at this point in time. It gets so discouraging to have to attend church every sunday and listen to negative things, things that point out our flaws and all..but i've come to realize that I wasn't perfect and nobody said life was easy and mos def our walks with God is never easy. But through my experiences, i've come to know that through everything, you let go, and LET GOD(just dont let go of both) and that FAITH IS for me.