“It made me wonder how many times we forgive just because we don’t want to lose someone, even if they don’t deserve our forgiveness.” -Sarah Dessen (courtesy of s.yen)
How fitting in all aspects of life right now..or at least in mines. I don't believe there is always a place, time, and person for forgiveness. It's NOT that easy. There comes a point in time where you just have to grow up, get over it, and realize that "someone" was just another lesson in life. Remember, learn, and apply. Especially if its not once or twice they did you wrong but more than that, you need to stand up and do yourself one of the biggest favors. Forget what other people think, it's not about being understanding or "nice"..you've become a pushover and the loser in the situation. So be the bigger (and smarter) person, move on, as hard as it gets know that that "someone" just LOST you, you didn't lose them. Easy as 1-2-3, well ..almost.
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